September 26, 9:15 am
Me and some girl friends had some talk with a man who just considering he broke up with his girlfriend.
We thought he had a girlfriend which actually he only had a girl friend.
Disclaimer, we just cannot simply conclude from just one man's opinion.
Okay, the story is my friend knew this girl and being friend with her for many years already and already had some lepaking or maybe can be a dating.
And out of nowhere, she posting that she already engaged with somebody else. And my friend got frustrated with that act.
We sympathised with what happened. But after we listened to the real story, we 200%. disagreed with him which saying that girl choosing someone better to be with and left him. Which could be saying she is cheated on him.
He did not confessed to that girl that he likes her, he want her to be his girlfriend. Obviously that girl cannot go further with him.
Maybe that girl just assuming my friend as a friend. Meanwhile, opposite for my friend. He assuming that the girl understand that he has feeling towards her by without confessed anything. He assuming by go out for lepak or dating could be considered as a couple.
He stated that when he confessed that he liked her, he needs to take care of her, he needs to be responsible of her which he should not be because they are not married yet. He can act like that but not compulsory if he could not afford.
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We both men and women need to know that we both cannot telepath. We are not the x-men, we are not the Prof Charles Xavier. We are just human. If there is something that really need to be tell, just tell it out. We cannot assuming. Something precious need to be chased. At least you do the move.
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