What Men Think

September 26, 9:15 am

Me and some girl friends had some talk with a man who just considering he broke up with his girlfriend.

We thought he had a girlfriend which actually he only had a girl friend.

Disclaimer, we just cannot simply conclude from just one man's opinion.

Okay, the story is my friend knew this girl and being friend with her for many years already and already had some lepaking or maybe can be a dating. 

And out of nowhere, she posting that she already engaged with somebody else. And my friend got frustrated with that act. 

We sympathised with what happened. But after we listened to the real story, we 200%. disagreed with him which saying that girl choosing someone better to be with and left him. Which could be saying she is cheated on him. 

He did not confessed to that girl that he likes her, he want her to be his girlfriend. Obviously that girl cannot go further with him. 

Maybe that girl just assuming my friend as a friend. Meanwhile, opposite for my friend. He assuming that the girl understand that he has feeling towards her by without confessed anything. He assuming by go out for lepak or dating could be considered as a couple. 

He stated that when he confessed that he liked her, he needs to take care of her, he needs to be responsible of her which he should not be because they are not married yet. He can act like that but not compulsory if he could not afford.

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We both men and women need to know that we both cannot telepath. We are not the x-men, we are not the Prof Charles Xavier. We are just human. If there is something that really need to be tell, just tell it out. We cannot assuming. Something precious need to be chased. At least you do the move.

ISTERI KENA BERHENTI KERJA DUDUK KAMPUNG

30 November 2021, 8.56 am

Merujuk kepada tajuk, dah tentulah kena dalam bahasa melayu. Aku kadang keliru, sebab aku tak bagus pun dalam kedua dua bahasa. Bahasa melayu teruk bahasa inggeris lagi la teruk.

Okay.

Perempuan sekarang ramai yang dah belajar tinggi ada sijil diploma, ijazah, master. Lepas habis belajar, cari kerja. Kerja yang bagus. Gaji yang bagus. 

Tujuan untuk bekerjaya sangatlah pelbagai atau pun subjektif. Ada yang nak dapatkan pendapatan untuk sara hidup. Ada yang nak dapatkan pendapatan untuk berbelanja lebih nak beli itu ini untuk kepuasan diri. Ada yang berkeinginan untuk tolong ahli keluarga yang mana keluarganya susah. Ada yang juga yang berkeinginan untuk bantu suami, bukan jugak sebab gaji si suami tu tak mencukupi tapi untuk kita beli barang guna duit sendiri tanpa ada rasa bersalah untuk berbelanja lebih dengan menggunakan duit si suami. Aku rasa yang ni ramai yang buat.

Namun demikian, ramai manusia yang mentaliti dia si isteri kena ikut si suami. Ya, untuk ikut suami ada alasan juga. Adakah si suami dihantar untuk bertugas ke daerah atau negeri lain? Adakah si suami kena menjaga keluarganya di kampung? Tapi untuk balik kampung dan tiada sebab yang munasabah, rasanya tak perlu kot.

Dengan tidak mengikuti kehendak suami untuk balik ke kampung dan menetap di sana bukan alasan untuk si suami berkahwin lagi satu. Aku cukup membangkang kalau ada orang yang menghakimi sampai macam tu. 

Aku rasa ramai je lagi manusia yang berfikiran perempuan kena ikut suami kemana sahaja.

IRRESPONSIBLE

I am in a problem where I need to think how to handle my car.

I bought a car and let someone use it but not properly taken care. I got my car back but not in a good condition:

No road tax for 2 years

Crack on the front mirror

Not properly serviced

Now I have to do since the person not being responsible to take car of my car.

The worst is I have to put my money to fix all the shit that he has done. With the debt that not being paid as of now. 

BIG CLAP BRO. DAMN YOU.

Miserable Mood

17 January 2022, 17:04:58

The feeling for today is not really good. 

I am not in the period mood which I am not supposed in the not in the mood.

But the environment made me miserable. Miserable I  think.

Basically I  just the feeling. I can't focused on my work. I can't think straightly.

Hahaha

What happened to me?